June 23, 2004 12:00am
Ask a Swinger - Hot Summer Sex
Source: Adult Industry News
by: Julie Wild
Summer is here, and it seems the hotter it gets outside, the better the sex. I went to a private swing party over the weekend. The party started on Friday night and I did not get home until Sunday. I met a lot of new people and several couples that are new to the lifestyle. Boy, did they have a lot to talk about this week! In case she is reading this weeks column, I would like to say hello to my new friend Lisa. You are awesome and I can't wait to be with you again.
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This week's hot questions;
I am 28, happily married with no children. My husband travels often, and during a recent business trip, my brother-in-law, (husband's brother) called and informed me he was in town and wanted to spend the night at our house. I did not want to refuse him a place to stay, but my husband was not in town.
I agreed and it seemed innocent. He arrived and we had a glass of wine and talked, I placed a pillow and blanket on the sofa and went to bed while he took a shower. Just then, he opened the door and climbed into my bed. I did not know what to say, I just pretended to be sleeping. Soon I found myself so horny, I started to slide closer to him, he placed his arm around me and started to fondle my breasts. The evening ended with the two of us having really hot sex for two hours.
The next morning, we had coffee and nothing was ever mentioned about the events last night. My husband arrived home and I am not sure if I should say anything to my husband, what do you think?
Marie Knoxville TN.
Wow, talk about getting caught up in the moment! I don't think you should tell your husband, but I do think you should have a long talk with your brother-in-law to make sure you both agree not to tell about the events of the evening. I would suggest you talk to your brother-in-law about why it happened and how to handle your relationship in the future.
Your column is unique. I never thought I would be writing to a sex column like yours. I am a single woman, 48 years old and very attractive. Most of my friends say I look like I am in my 30's. I work from home, so I receive packages from a courier three or four times a week.
His name is Sam and he is 23 years old. He is so hot and all I can think about is having sex with him. I try to look really sexy when he is coming with a delivery and he seems to be very interested. After every delivery by Sam, I find myself masturbating for hours, instead of working.
Today he offered to come by this weekend to help me with some repairs on the outside of my home. Do you think he is interested in getting to know me better or is he just being nice, I don't want to misread his offer and make a fool of myself.
Raquel Kissimmee FL.
I am so jealous, what a fantasy. Beg him to come over and help you over the weekend. I am sure he has in mind, exactly what you do. Where something very sexy or maybe a t-shirt with nothing on underneath. Don't be afraid to make the first move. Make sure you have lots of snacks and drinks on hand in case he ends up spending the weekend. I can't wait to hear how the repairs go. I am hot just thinking about what's going to happen.
A few months ago, I wrote to your column asking for advice. My husband had been pushing us to go to a local swing club. He had a fantasy of seeing me with another woman. Your advice was to talk it over thoroughly and then give it a try. I was so thankful for your quick e mail reply. Then seeing my letter published, was a real turn on. My husband reads your column each week. You asked for a update, so here it is.
We went to a local popular swing club on a Saturday night. The minute we walked in, I was so excited because the energy level was so high. The music was great. Within minutes we were on the dance floor. While dancing, a gorgeous blond about my age, started dancing very close to me. She was very attracted to me. My husband disappeared from the dance floor to allow me time to get to know my new friend.
She was very experienced and after a couple of songs, we both had our tops off. We were playing with each others nipples and she even started to explore other parts of my body. (no, I was not wearing panties)
We eventually moved to the group room, but my husband stood back and just watched. He wanted to take it all in. My first time with another woman was more than I ever expected and guess what? We are going back this weekend! Julie, thanks for the encouragement to explore my sexuality. Maybe someday I will get to meet you.
Carmen Atlanta GA.
Dear Carmen, it sounds like both of your husband's fantasies came true in one night. You sound like my kind of girl.