October 06, 2003 05:11am
From the Trenches: October Column from Dave Cummings
Source: Dave Cummings
by: Company Press Release
Lots of personal stuff will be included in this particular monthly column, almost like a journal instead of a column.
The past month began with a 3-day trek back to my hometown of Saratoga Springs, New York to attend my 45th Saratoga High School Class Reunion. Known for its famous horseracing racetrack, which I worked at for the three summers during my college days, the city hasn't changed much; however, we classmates certainly have! I guess we're all definitely showing our aging, some of us more than others, and that I personally had better start realizing how much of an old fart I really am, notwithstanding my porn world happenings and how "pornfully" young I actually feel! It was also painfully apparent to me how fortunate I am to still routinely have sex on film with women 30-40+ years younger than my 63 years of age; indeed, I'm spoiled! I love my classmates and our childhood experiences, but my present porn life seems much more sexually exciting, happy, and fun-filled! Interestingly, I was reminded by some of the girls from (our sister school) St Peter's High how I was the first boy they ever kissed---I must have been overcharged with testosterone, even early on in life. The entire reunion weekend was nostalgic and fun, though there was zero sex available; fortunately, I had jetted home on the day following the filming of "Screw My Wife, Please, Volume 37" where I was sexually involved in two of the five scenes, and with another actress while doing behind-the-scenes stuff for the DVD release.
I've recently continued to expand my involvement with the wonderful world of swinging, and have met some sexually open people via the link to "Swing Lifestyle" at my DaveCummings.com ---a Free site, it has access to all kinds of swingers and their contact information throughout America. Lately, I've also met some insatiable swinger females through a number of the Yahoo Groups (e.g., see the link to "Anne's PleasHer Parties" at my website), and have sexually partied with them----like Diva, Victoria, and a number of other California swingers, Anne throws great sex parties, gives fantastic head, and recently fucked my brains out repeatedly for hours and hours! At these get-togethers, safe sex is religiously practiced, personal hygiene is constantly stressed, and lots and lots of sex between consenting adults is available. There's also gangbang groups starting to spring up for the horny women who can't seem to get enough action, something that's nice for some of the many virulent guys who don't get an overabundance of opportunity for sex in their present lives. More and more, I see that people (particularly women) are starting to acknowledge the important role that sex plays in life; in my experience and opinion, sexual community standards and attitudes towards the normalcy of sex seem to be changing for the better!
On another personal note, along with my son and ex-wife, I was in Tucson for three days this month to be with my 39-year old daughter and her family as she had open heart surgery to replace a leaking heart valve with an artificial one; the damage to one of her four heart valves might possibly have been caused by undiagnosed rheumatic fever during her childhood. She endured the surgery nicely, was sitting in a chair the following day, and walking around the hospital on the 3d day; she's now home and getting around fine! I mentioned this because it reminded me of our lifelong role as parents, especially when a child is hospitalized; Throughout the lives of our children, we celebrate their accomplishments and happiness; but, we also often suffer right along with them when they are injured or hurt---parenting is forever, not just during their childhood. Life is not always easy, but it indeed beats the alternative! As an aside, while at the Tucson Heart Hospital, I took advantage of their Heart Ct Scan capability. The test results showed that I'll probably live long, so I've booking shoots like crazy to celebrate!
Speaking of shoots, I did one for my "Knee Pad Nymphos" series yesterday with a new 21-year old actress who reminded me of a waitress I often see at a breakfast place I frequent near the beach in San Diego. I was sexually excited about living out the fantasies I've often privately enjoyed about that waitress. Yesterday's shoot was a sexy reality scene. Today, I went to that same breakfast place to again enjoy the view/personality/reality of that young lady, and then I did my jog/run/walk on the beach while vowing to use even more everyday-looking actresses instead of the ultra-beautiful (but often "unattainable") ones----it's a reality thing in my mind, and I think viewers sometimes want to see and fantasize about girls they might actually have a shot at, not an ultra-beautiful and perfect contract actress out of a sophisticated porn feature!
Larry Flynt was in San Diego two days ago for the grand opening of his new restaurant. I was honored to visit with him and his family while lines formed to get his autograph and photos. I treasure the American freedoms that Larry suffered for and upheld on behalf of all of us. He's truly an icon of the United States of America, and our Constitutional freedoms.
In closing this month's column, let me wish you a happy month filled with love, sex, and thanksgiving for America. As always, please be extra nice to people, just for the sake of being nice!