December 08, 2002 06:21pm
December Column From the Trenches
by: Courtesy of Dave Cummings
Swinging is great sex! As I mentioned in my last column, I getting more involved with swinging; it is "real" sex, without contrived scenarios, hot lights, awkward positions, or fake sounds. In fact, unlike adult films where a real bed is seldom used, swinging sex almost always involves comfortable beds.
Swinging parties, at least those having group rooms, usually involves two or three beds pushed together into a playground of hot and realistic sex. Case in point, the recent bi-monthly Saturday night swing parties hosted by the fine folks at ClubCB.com, where 60-75 couples enjoy sensuality and sex on the dance floor, in the backyard, the jacuzzi and pool area, and in the two huge group rooms complete with beds, sex swings, and toys.
My friend Victoria (you can find her web site under the links page in the free/guest's portion of my DaveCummings.com site) and I have partnered to attend their last three bi-monthly parties, and will undoubtedly become "regulars" for future parties. Located north of San Diego on a sprawling private estate, the two couples organizing the parties have thought of everything to enhance the swinging experience.
Fucking in the swinging environment at CB's is an elegant experience in a classy mansion that's sparkling clean, safe (baskets of free condoms are everywhere), and exciting. Yes, first-time attendees might include some couples who only want to watch and enjoy the visuals; but, for the most part, everyone "plays"! Like most swinging parties, no one is pressured to do anything they aren't totally comfortable with enjoying. Cleanliness and respect for others abounds, and attendees seem like the parties are their escape and playground from an otherwise stress-filled life in today's society. To me, sex in a swinging environment is as realistic as it gets!
Let me tell you about Tara Wild, of TaraWild.com. We were recently filming a sex scene for my (AVN Awards nominated) Knee Pad Nymphos series (a 10-scene video focused around blow-jobs but which usually also includes fucking in 3-5 of the scenes, one of which always culminates in a "creampie" cum shot. One of the live Internet shows on AlbumSide.com had arranged to call us during the filming to listen to the slurping sounds of Tara munching on my member. Bottom line: Tara is indeed "Wild", so her name is justly accurate!
We both talked on the speakerphone briefly, then set it down while Tara wildly slurped-away! I sense that the audience had an earful of realistic audio that day. Lately, I have become an avid fan of the Internet shows, especially the Wednesday noontime show of YNOTBob.com. Tara played a nurse that day---in fact, four of the ten scenes in the upcoming release of "Knee Pad Nymphos, Vol 5" are focused around nurses (the photos of which might be good content for the upcoming launch of one of my other new 300 sites, this one being CockSuckingNurses.com site); one of the nurses does a creampie; actually, 5 of the 10 scenes in this release include sex, along with two vaginal creampies and one anal creampie (from the actress at ShannonGetsIt.com).
Incidentally, when I do the "creampie" cum shots, I try to climax while the head of my penis is just barely inside the girl's vagina/anus; then, with the camera still totally on the action as I pull out, the girl or I will squeeze another drop or two out of my member so that the viewers will have "proof" that I actually shot a load inside the girl (unlike some creampie shots where folks fake it using a turkey baster and Pina Colada to imitate ejaculant); then, with the camera still covering the action without interruption, we capture the cum oozing out of the actress.
Speaking of shooting content, one of the starlets from "Knee Pad Nymphos, Vol 4" ( i.e., RhiannonBray.com ) and I will soon be getting together to shoot some stills and video for her site, including another scene for a future release of my of my three series). I find Rhiannon very sensuous, intelligent, and fun; so, I am very much looking forward to the shoot! And, with both of us having served in the United States Army, we seem to have a meaningful connection from our pasts. I'm also very much looking forward to shooting content again next month with the sexy girl at JulieLove.com
I won't bore you with details from the many shoots of the past month, but they have been fun. I am indeed a very fortunate guy to be in the Adult Industry. I was reminded of that again just last night as Jewels Jade and I were judges for the De'ja` Vu Showgirl of the Year Award competition, this one at the Dream Girls gentlemen's club in San Diego (managed, incidentally, by one of the astute participants in last year's Free Speech Coalition's lobbying events at the California Legislature); the young ladies competing put forth a lot of creativity and effort into their presentations---every one of them was a winner! I saw freedom, America, and hard-working real people at the event last night. Jewels and I had difficult decisions casting our votes.
My next column will report to you about the upcoming Adult Internet gathering, the Adult Entertainment Expo, and the AVN Awards Show (see AVN.com), all taking place in Las Vegas. Traditionally, it's a full week of great parties, porn starlets all over the place, and lots of fun! Stay tuned!