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February 07, 2002 02:57pm
From the Trenches - "Groupie Girls"
Source: DaveCummings.com
by: Courtesy of Dave Cummings

Never in a million years would I have ever dreamed that I would have "Groupie Girls" in my life! But, it's happening, and often!

I guess itís because: I'm a porn star, and some girls want to "do" a porn star; also, and undoubtedly the most important enticement, is the reality that Iím old (Iíll be 62 on March 13th, and will be eligible for Social Security this year), and some girls want to do a porn star who reminds them of their older High School coach, a former neighbor, a boss, someone whose child they baby-sat for in their youth, a girlfriendís grandfather, some older guy they once saw in a military uniform, or whatever; and, I'm easily accessible via my www.davecummings.com web site and dave@davecummings.com email. Whatever it is that's causing "groupie girls" to want to "do" me, I hope it never ends!

Actually, besides being old and wrinkled, Iím also bald, overweight, and far from good-looking - perhaps it's a "plus" now days to be average or below! At any rate, I'm happily enjoying the groupie girls, and the sizzling hot sexual encounters.

Though the final result of all this surprise attention is a lot of sex, it costs me considerable time to check out the girls beforehand. Usually, I first hear from a new/wannabe "groupie girl" via a general fan letter or email. Even though I donít have enough time to afford (yet another) "pen pal", I personally answer each and every incoming communication. I sometimes hear subsequently from her suggesting that sheíd like to get-together; or, in some cases, the very first letter/email is one wherein she confesses to being turned on by the thought of sex with a porn guy who reminds her of an older fantasy man from her past, and she asks if I would meet with her. Yes, sometimes the girl is a guy pretending to be a girl, but I can usually screen them out rather quickly (though I am completely heterosexual in both my private life and my on-screen performances, I support the right of everyone to chose and enjoy their own personal sexual preferences between themselves and other consenting adults).

The next step is to have them send/email me a recent photo and proof of being at least 18 years of age (incidentally, in the photo as well as in any subsequent preliminary meeting(s) at a coffee shop or other public place, I visually check the size of her "Adams Apple", wrists, fingers, etc to relax myself that "she's" not a "he" dressed like a "groupie girl"). I then want to chat with her on the phone, and make certain itís a legit situation; and, that's she understands that it's just for sex fun and that no money is to be involved either way, and that condoms are an absolute "must". If she sounds stable and sincere, and not someone so promiscuous that I might be exposing myself to Std's (I worry because condoms sometimes break), or a wacko, I might agree to let her come to San Diego for a get-together at her motel/hotel. Sometimes, subsequent encounters happen at my condo. The geographical situation often kills the idea of an immediate meeting, but Iíve had some groupie girls save up their money and later come to San Diego for a day or weekend of sex! One girl in Australia is hoping to get here this summer, as are girls from Singapore, Germany, and Spain. A number of wannabe "Groupie Girls" in the United States keep in touch hoping that I might meet up with them while Iím traveling near their area.

The most convenient situations are the ones involving girls who live in Southern California, especially girls living in or near San Diego. They sometimes become "regulars" and request get-togethers whenever their "need" builds up again; and, sometimes the "groupie girls" want only a one-time meeting to live out a long-time fantasy. One 23-year old "regular", 5'3", 115 lb beauty, always brings me chocolate chip cookies; another equally beautiful young lady usually drops to her knees within 10-seconds of shutting the door and always says "now, I want to be a baaaaaad girl" as she feverishly begins to give me oral sex as a prelude to hours and hours of fantastic sex! Another sends me nice "Thank-you" notes afterwards. One 19-year old had so much fun that she recently brought her 20-year girlfriend along so that she could experience her fantasy of a threesome! Sometimes, girls contact me after having been referred by another "groupie"! I never knowingly meet with girls behind the backs of their boyfriend/husbandóit seems unethical, immoral, and down right dangerous.

Lest you think that all the girls are single, let me mention that I often have couples wanting me to do the wife/girlfriend. Usually, the guy takes photos or merely watches his woman go wild, but some also do the girl. Sometimes, if geographical distances are too great, Iíll agree to telephone the girl on a prearranged birthday "dirty phone call", or to wish her a Happy Anniversary!

I differentiate among single "groupie girls", those groupies who sometimes bring their Significant Other along with them, and swinging couples; though I enjoy the females in all situations, single groupies are a major boost for my ego. Sometimes, to assist the groupie girls who become "regulars", I give them copies of my Sugardaddy, sex Fun, or Knee Pad Nymphos videos for those times when they are in "need", but Iím unavailable and can't meet with them.

Interestingly, although we become sexually close friends during our sessions, almost all of the true groupie girls value their privacy; they do not want to be everyday intimate friends, date, have coffee, be a pen pal, chat on the phone, or anything other than have sex! As a single guy who values his time and privacy, I love it this way.

Yes, I am indeed a very fortunate "old" guy. Iím truly blessed to be experiencing what I just admitted above. The combination of being a porn star, and being older and average, is apparently a winner. Now, if I could just find a way to schedule girls in such a way that it wouldnít interfere with the day off I need prior to shoots (at my age, at least for me, I need a day off to "accumulate" for required "money shots", especially for my own productions where I usually need enough for two separate scenes with two separate "money shots"---in my case, perhaps a more accurate term might be "money dribbles")!

Register to vote, support candidates and incumbents who wonít trample on anyoneís right to view/enjoy adult entertainment, and root for our military folks!

Dave Cummings, www.davecummings.com

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