December 14, 2010 04:44pm
From the Trenches 12/10
Source: Adult Industry News
by: Dave Cummings, Porn Star/Producer/Director
With the piracy-induced filming slowdown thatís adversely affecting almost all but the most financially gifted companies, and some producers who have "investors" with deep pockets, the opportunity for me to perform on camera as a means of sexually getting me "off" is ebbing considerably. Thank goodness for the swinging women and the groupies here in the San Diego area who get "off" from having sex with this old porn star.
Iím thankful for every time some guy calls to coordinate having his wife or girlfriend do a "drive-by" on her way home from work for me to "do" her; of course, her guy benefits because she then goes home to a re-shower and a roll in the sack with him. These type get-togethers gives me sexual pleasure and a subsequent feeling of satisfaction knowing that the couple is going to make love after she just had sex with me.
And, no, I donít feel like I was "used". For the most part, these are beautiful women who would never have unbridled sex with me if I wasnít a porn star, and so oldóperhaps the "daddy" aspect is part of their sexual excitement. Candidly, itís just sex for me, but damn fine sex with no strings attached, and itís a lot better than me having to masturbate.
In case youíre wondering, except for receiving oral from the women, I always use condoms while having intercourse in my off-camera sex life. ALWAYS!
I very much enjoy the NFL season, and San Diego Charger game-watching parties that some swinger couples enjoy hosting. We invitees try to arrive in time to use the hot tub and pool, and to sexually play before the game kicks off. At halftime, the pizzas, salads, burgers are delivered, and eating (in more ways than one) begins. Sometimes, cunnilingus and BJs happen right in front of the 10-15 couples watching the game, and if the Chargers are losing badly we often adjourn to a group room for sex.
Notwithstanding the game happenings, we "play" much of the time there. These are not "meet-and-greet" events, but rather are active sex parties. I am fortunate to be a single man who gets invited to these and other local swinger events. I meet with some of these same couples at other times for sex, too, usually with wives who want two orifices filled simultaneously or for their husband to watch and/or film while she and I go at it.
From my performing experiences, Iíve come to appreciate seeing porn starlets play with themselves while having intercourse; Iíd like to fantasize that itís because they seem to genuinely be into the sex. At any rate, Iíve mentioned this to some of the other females I play with, and they then sometimes insert their fingers or rub their clitoris, and some even thank me for mentioning it to them and giving them motivation to touch themselves. I get sexually excited seeing women get so turned on.
I believe it helps to be tactfully communicating when it comes to sex. I sense that pleasure can be heightened by sharing our sexual feelings with our partners, especially when the feedback during sex makes the pleasure even better. Heck, we want to please the woman so that she wants lots of sexówith us! I believe that sex can sometimes turn into lovemaking and after-sex might initiate even more sex.
Some super highways have Rest Areas, and Iíve wondered if America and society will ever get to the point of accepting masturbation as a natural and healthy aspect of life, to the point that we might see mini-garages at rest stops where one can insert money into a machine that opens the garage door for a drive-in private period of time to masturbate before getting back on the road more focused and attentive to the driving. Maybe someday!
2010 is ending soon. Please, please, please celebrate on New Yearís Eve in a sane and lawful manner, especially as it concerns driving after drinking. Please?!
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